Why am i still a single?

Probably this question is in every single's mind.That why AM I a single? why me?There may be millions or just one reason why you are a single. Some one may be a single because he has this addiction towards drugs and everyone thinks he is messed up , or the other reason may also be someone likes you but they do not have the courage to talk to you. Yeah that may happen some times. Or, there may be a very unique reason about why you are a single? Something like that could be a reason IF anyone did not let me tell you all that probability of being or not being a single also depends on the place you live. According to this article by "The Boston Globe" , the ratio of female single population is relatively high to the male singles in cities than in less city like places. For example: Places such as new york and Washington D.C. have more population of single females than males. And places such as Texas and Oklahoma has male singles population more than female singles.So, a guy who is looking for a partner should probably hit the city streets and a girl who is looking for a good guy should come back a less city like places. That's the only way to balance the difference.The are many reasons behind those differences that is explained in the article below.I just want every one's response about the article.

1)http://www.boston.com/bostonglobe/ideas/articles/2008/03/30/a_singles_map_of_the_united_states_of_america/

Life is amazing, it really is...ups and downs..twists and turns ..scars and burns and things like that..Its incredibly boring sometimes, like last night. I did nothing but stare at the wall, for two whole hours. Finally my senses came back in place and i thought i should make something useful and productive out of my time.What i did was nowhere near productive or useful but it was fun.I decided to go back in time and search how many times have i said "she is so beautiful" and actually meant it. I know its completely random but i had nothing else to do, i think.So, i started searching for my first " she is so freaking beautiful" memory and the results were pretty amazing.I could see me eight or nine years back, wearing white shirt tucked inside a perfectly creased half pants, side parted hair, oval glasses and white socks with black shoes.I cant lie, i was pretty adorable at that time.I was studying entitle Angels' School,5Th grade, Section B, the best school in Nepal and i had a crush on my class monitor.I saw myself running towards a bunch of girls who were busy devouring their lunches, i don't think they were really hungry or ever cared about lunch by their own will, they were forced.If they didn't finish their lunch on time, the teacher would surely finish them,not the lunch fool, the kids. I can feel the pain, been there done that. I don't know what got into me, the little me, i went close to a girl and whispered "Hey, that girl is freaking beautiful". The next thing i know ,she was furious. Then i noticed her left hand coming towards my left cheek ,at like 120 miles per sec and BLAAMMMM!!! yes , she slapped me.HARDCORE.I don't know why she did it,but she did and i got slapped by a girl for the first time in my life (excluding my mom and sister).It will always be a mystery but its history so i don't care. Lets move on.Next time i found myself in 11th grade, 2006 baby!!! This going back to memory thing is just like time traveling without a time machine. Only flaw is, u cant do anything to change what happened when u travel back memory. Whereas in time travel things might be different( i don't know, i haven't travel back in time yet, when i will do it i will be more than happy to share my experiences).Meanwhile back in 2006, it was the last day of exams and i was planning to beat the hell out of this kid, saurib or sauresh or whatever the freak's name was. I hated St. Xaveirs School. However, the irony was that, my best buddy was in that school. My friend was a good guy. I had no intentions of making him look like an a jerk but my actions always spoke in a reciprocal manner.So i finished my exam and came out of the hall, i felt like a beast freed from 1000 yrs of imprisonment. I was ready to beat the hell out of that dude, i can not remember his name all i remember is he was ugly, had body order and looked like a douche bag. When i came out of the gate i saw this BEAUTIFUL GIRL standing by the cafe with her friends. I was numb for like a minute or so, her beauty left me spellbound. I used to deny that angels existed but she proved me wrong.Her face had this strange glow in it, the glow that influences people to do good stuff, the glow that makes do moral stuff. For a second i thought how beautiful a human can actually be and my plans to beat this kid completely faded from my mind.I started walking towards her. I didn't know who she was?where she was from? what was her name? literally nothing about her and i didn't really cared at that point. I cant exactly remember what i said but i definitely said this"HEY , I AM IMPRESSED. YOU ARE VERY BEAUTIFUL".She was shocked, 440 volts, but she talked back, she actually thanked me for my compliment and we became friends. So no slaps this time, thank heavens( if there is a heaven, that is). I felt stupid after she left. I wanted to kick myself, i even did. I could never apologize to her for my sudden irrational , barbaric behaviour so via this note i want to apologize, i am sorry ... i didn't mean to say those stuff but i had no choice, your beauty left me hypnotized.So excluding all my ex girlfriends there were only two girls that i actually thought were beautiful .I never knew my choices were so limited. But hey! that's me and there is nothing you can do about it.Thank you for wasting your time and to all the ladies out there, even though i never say it YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.

Via this i want to know what you all think about how i felt at that time and respond what i should have done.

The patriarchal face of Nepal.

I was born and raised in Kathmandu the capital city of the glorious Himalayan country, Nepal. The country has a very patriarchal society, so I have had a firsthand experience about how males dominated the society. A couple of decades ago women were deprived of education and employment. They were limited up to the usual household activities where as men were eligible for any kind of opportunity. For example: My grand mom was neither given the opportunity of education nor of employment. It makes me feel bad that I am a product and a part of the same society but now things have changed. The way our society worked back then and the way it works now is very different.Still men are considered the “better than” and women are considered the “less than” part of the system. But the intensity of discrimination as i said earlier has dropped down to very low rate. Back then women were bound to stay inside the house and the only work given to them were housekeeping and babysitting but now due to education and better awareness people are more open to new ideas that have given women equal rights as men. Women today have flourished an boomed in many financial and developmental sectors as men, and has proven their worth. But there are still other places in the world where women are very ill treated and are forced to certain terms and conditions. We should all protest against those kinds of activities if we come across it and try our best to give our society, the feeling of equality.

All hail women, beautiful creation, a man's passion.

Is it a trend? Massive wars have been fought over it. Brothers have been slayed yet men are still searching for new ways to lure women's attraction. Women have always acted as a catalyst for men to sprint vigorously towards their one and only frantic need, women. Tell me, wouldn't life portray a desert if women were to vanish? Luxury, Love, lust and probably everything would be wiped out if women were to disappear.

From ancient times till today men have committed several absurdities, just to crack a women's heart. That blindness, that drive, only a women can make men sweat and drool for it. All hail women, beautiful creations; All hail women, a man's passion. May be that's why, humans invented perfumes that attract women without a drop of blood spilt in vain. So that men could capture a women's attention, people have come up with more innovative ideas such as a Calvin Klein perfume which according to this video could physically infatuate women. If i were wrong they would never had made this video.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bWftULhOc4o